Dr. Kristin Tolbert: High-Conflict Child Custody Consultant
Helping Attorneys & Clients Uncover the Truth in Custody Disputes
When dealing with a former spouse who manipulates, distorts reality, and thrives on conflict, a standard legal approach isn’t enough. You need a strategy that accounts for the psychological tactics at play—and a plan to expose them effectively.
I specialize in helping attorneys and clients navigate the complexities of narcissistic abuse and coercive control in custody cases. I understand the tactics, patterns, and psychological manipulation used—and, more importantly, I know how to help you document, present, and integrate these factors into a legal strategy that brings the truth to light.
You don’t have to do this alone. I’ll help you stay in control, build a strategic case, and ensure the court sees the reality behind the façade.
What This Means for You
✔ Anticipate Your Ex’s Moves, Instead of Reacting
I’ll help you recognize patterns and predict responses before they happen, so you can make strategic, informed decisions rather than being caught off guard.
✔ Master Communication Strategies
You’ll learn how to engage, when to disengage, and what to document—minimizing conflict while strengthening your case.
✔ Build a Clear, Organized Case
I’ll help gather, structure, and develop the evidence needed so your attorney has exactly what they need to tell your story effectively.
✔ Expose Manipulation & Psychological Abuse
I understand the subtleties and nuances of narcissistic tactics and will help you present them in a way that professionals and the court can clearly see and understand.
✔ Gain Clarity & Confidence
With a strong plan, you’ll stop feeling overwhelmed by the chaos your ex creates and move forward with a sense of control and direction.
✔ Ensure the Court Sees the Truth, Not Just the Narcissist’s Version of It
I’ll help ensure that the psychological dynamics of your case are clearly understood and strategically presented—not dismissed or misunderstood.
How I Help Attorneys & Clients
For Attorneys
- Uncover Bias & Errors in Custody Evaluations
Identifying flaws, omissions, and inconsistencies that could impact the case. - Develop Cross-Examination Questions
Crafting precise questions to expose manipulative tactics and unreliable testimony. - Assess the Credibility of Expert Witnesses
Ensuring psychological testimony is accurate, ethical, and aligned with professional standards. - Provide Strategic Psychological Consultation
Helping attorneys integrate psychological insights into a compelling legal strategy. - Ensure Evidence is Organized & Actionable
Structuring case materials so the psychological dynamics are clear to judges and evaluators.
For Clients
- Master Effective Communication with Your Ex
Learning when and how to engage, what to document, and how to maintain control. - Predict & Prepare for Manipulative Tactics
Recognizing patterns of gaslighting, coercion, and psychological abuse so you can respond strategically instead of emotionally. - Document & Organize Evidence to Strengthen Your Case
Ensuring that everything is structured properly to support your legal team. - Expose the True Psychological Dynamics in Court
Helping attorneys, judges, and evaluators see past the narcissist’s carefully curated image. - Maintain Clarity & Emotional Stability Throughout Litigation
Staying grounded and focused in the face of high-conflict litigation.
A Proven Track Record in High-Conflict Custody Cases
With over 400 expert witness testimonies, I have been qualified as an expert in multiple states, including Florida, Maryland, Nevada, California, and Alaska. I also consult on cases internationally, including in the Bahamas, South Africa, and the Netherlands.
My work is grounded in:
- APA Guidelines for Child Custody Evaluations
- AFCC Model Standards of Practice for Child Custody Evaluation
- The latest research and professional best practices in forensic psychology and family law
Judges, attorneys, and evaluators rely on psychological insight to understand complex custody cases. My role is to make sure the right insights are presented in a way that makes an impact.
Take Back Control of Your Case & Your Future
If you’ve felt unheard, misrepresented, or overwhelmed by the legal process—I can help you change that.
With a clear strategy, an organized case, and a deep understanding of how to expose manipulation, you’ll be prepared to move forward with confidence.
Let’s talk about how I can help.